Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Yuga-Adi aka New Beginnings


Dear Chance Blog Readers, 

The auspicious festival of Ugadi is celebrated today with utmost joy and enthusiasm in Karnataka and other South Indian states. Ugadi is observed on the first day of Chaitra according to the Hindu lunisolar calendar. The name ‘Ugadi’ originated from two Sanskrit words, ‘Yuga’ and ‘Adi’, translating to a new beginning. It is believed that Ugadi was the first day of the creation of the Universe. As per Hindu mythology, Lord Brahma created the Universe on this day and then days, weeks, months, and years.

Ugadi also marks the onset of spring, which symbolizes renewal, growth, and prosperity. Special dishes are prepared for the occasion. In Karnataka, foods such as Holige or Obattu, and mango pickles are made. In addition, a specialty of Yugadi in Karnataka is to create "bEvu-Bella" a mixture of neem and jaggery. This symbolizes life's own experiences with a little bit of bitterness and a hint of sweetness.

Click here for more information about this auspicious day. 

Today marks the first day of Chaitra Navratri. It also marks a personal milestone close to my heart which I would like to share with you all. Today, I experienced the amazing phenomenon of muscle memory firsthand. 

As some of you may know, I first started driving while I was living in the US from 2007-2012. My first internship required me to commute by car and hence had picked up driving back then.  I was in my early twenties in a foreign land away from family at that time. I was also extremely lucky to have a few good friends to guide me, through getting a license and letting me borrow their car for the internship back then.  I was lucky to have done some fun road trips with good friends.

After spending five memorable years there, I moved back to India in 2012(Gurgaon) and later to Bangalore in 2015 for personal reasons. Ever since my move back, I was overwhelmed by anxiety due to the chaotic traffic in India which had deterred me from driving in India(something which I used to enjoy).

I finally picked up the courage and moved beyond my fears today. 

After almost 11 years, I drove to the airport today( a total of 80 km) for the first time since I moved back to India in 2012 from the US๐Ÿ˜€.   

My husband and I had initially planned to drive around a few streets near our neighborhood (given the long gap). However, as he saw me confidently pick up the wheel, we decided to go farther on busier roads and finally covered 80 km driving on the highway to and from the airport today making it yet another memorable evening. 

Changing, and challenging ourselves is what keeps us alive and growing. It’s always an easier option to give in to our internal negative self-talk or self-limiting beliefs, but if we keep on doing that, our capacity contracts.

The great thing about life is that we can invent ourselves over and over. We can continually discover new skills and new areas of experience as we go through life. It’s sometimes a struggle, but it leads to a vibrant and fulfilled life.



It is frightening to leave the safe ground where the caterpillar dwells and enter a cocoon of unknowingness. But the reward, the sweet reward ...


Picture Credits: Hubby Madhu


is to discover your capability to drive through the chaotic traffic of India, celebrate the randomness of life, thank your lucky stars, and blissfully pose for this picture!! 

Here’s to new beginnings, moving beyond your fears, trying new things, picking new skills, and honing existing ones!! Let's greet "Yug Adi' (Ugadi) with a lot of optimism, excitement, and expectation. Let's hope for plenty of health, happiness, fulfillment, serenity, and wealth.

"'Yug Adi' (Ugadi) means the beginning of a new Yuga (year). Let's begin this new year with new hope. Wishing you and your family an auspicious Ugadi!"

Wednesday, August 3, 2022

The Beautiful Tale of Two States



The Beautiful Tale of Two States

It's interesting how with a little attention to our breath and a smile on our faces, we are more calm and present. I recently came across a TED Talk which describes that fundamentally every one of us lives only in two states. 

  • No-Stress or Beautiful State
  • Stressful State

                                                                                                
             
                                       

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Behind every choice and every action is the driving force of only these two states. Sadly, our education, the entire system of our society, our parents, and our religion do not bring sufficient attention to our inner state. 
The very structure of education at school makes us 
  • compete
  • feel jealous of another's progress
  • feel ashamed of being less
A total compromise on the essence of being human. 

We need a greater inner power to get us to a beautiful state. And that is the way of inner truth.
This truth can be inconvenient for us. All emotional suffering arises from obsessive self-centric thinking. We are pre-occupied with
  • injustice done to us
  • pleasure that was denied to us
  • opportunities that did not come our way
  • love that was withheld from us
In this state, we are not concerned with solutions to the problem at hand.

When we see this truth (that all lingering and suffering is a total preoccupation with oneself): Not only do we walk out of stressful states, but there is a great release of energy and you awaken to a sense of power, connection, freedom and purpose. 

The questions to ask ourselves time and again is Are You
  • engaged with your past?
  • engaged with your future?
  • in the present?
  • preoccupied with yourself?
(OR)

Are You in a state of connection?


How to end stress, unhappiness and anxiety to live in a beautiful state!!

 

Thursday, August 22, 2019

เคงเคจ्เคฏเคตाเคฆ ie dhanyavฤda aka Thank you



เคฌเคฆเคฒा? เค‰เคธเคฎे เค•्เคฏा เคฎเฅ›ा เคนै? เคฎुเคे เคคो เคšुเคจ เคšुเคจ เค•े เคงเคจ्เคฏเคตाเคฆ เคฌोเคฒเคจा เค…เคš्เค›ा เคฒเค—เคคा เคนै :)


Backbencher: Wow, this is pretty cool. Totally agree

Astrea: Thanks for the appreciation. Would you like to add your 2 cents worth of wisdom?

BackBencher: Of course. Am glad you asked. 

"Make hay while the sun shines"




Wednesday, August 21, 2019

Looking back into my all-time favorite Newspaper ...

What is the difference between "intervene" and "interfere"?

                                                             (Sita, Chennai)


"Interfere" has a negative connotation. When you interfere in something, you are poking your nose into other people's business. You are meddling. The word carries with it the sense of obstruction or getting in the way of something. Here are a few examples.

*The slashing of funding interfered with the work on the project.

*The politician tried to interfere in the police investigation.

*I don't want you to interfere in my life.

"Intervene", on the other hand, has a much more positive connotation. When you intervene in something, you are playing a much more constructive role. This probably explains why the Americans talk about their intervention in Iraq, rather than interference. Here are a few examples.

*The lawyer intervened in the dispute and resolved the problem.
*I don't want to intervene in a dispute between a husband and a wife.
*The police intervened when the students started throwing stones at buses.

                                                                ***** ***** *****

"Britain has invented a new missile. It's called the civil servant - it doesn't work and it can't be fired." — Walter Walker

S. UPENDRAN

Quirky teachers Ant and the GrassHopper


                    To be continued .

Monday, August 19, 2019

What women want? err... I meant ..

The answer to a cuckoo's calling
       
backBencher: Sorry Astrea, I left in a hurry the last time we spoke.

Astrea: no, worries, I understand. Happens to me too all the time.

backBencher: Thank you so much for understanding Astrea. You are indeed a godsend!

Astrea: Haha, nothing like that, as you know it's all a matter of perspective. 

backBencher: I lost you there Astrea ...

Astrea: It's a simple but powerful concept. Drawing and Design fundamentals explain these concepts like Perspective, Color Theory, Harmony, etc ...

backBencherYou know I kind of see your point! I am curious about one thing Astrea, may I ask you?

Astrea: Aah backbencher, when did you start being so formal ... Fire away, am all ears. Will do my best, to clarify ... 

backBencher: Have been pondering on this for ages, What do women want?

Astrea: Aah that's a tough one to answer. However, if you like I could clarify as to what women need :)

backBencher: Hmm .. I never thought of this question. Sure do enlighten me, might come handy in my family life :D

Astrea: haha, am glad you are eager to know what women need :)

backBencher: ofc, this might be the question for the Millenials. 

Astrea: :), unlike rocket science, for starters it would be loads of


Love and Fresh Air akin to the Garden of Eden

backBencher: Pretty interesting and insightful. Am sure it would be filled with several breaths of fresh air.

backBencher: So Astrea, do you get that where you live?


....but Astrea was gone already, back to her creative-den, and there went her sweet fragrance too!

Lalbagh botanical garden - Bangalore: 2019



Secret sauce for a beautiful mind in the making

My take on secrets for a beautiful mind

Enrolling in the following course from my alma mater remotely via EdX(utAustinx) prompted me to inscribe this digital post, with the sole hope of leaving behind a digital footprint, that is hopefully useful to chance blog readers.


Effective Thinking Through Mathematics
Understand Deeply 
Don't face complex issues head-on; first, understand simple ideas deeply. Clear the clutter and expose what is really important. Be brutally honest about what you know and don't know. Then see what's missing, identify the gaps, and fill them in. Let go of bias, prejudice, and preconceived notion. There are degrees to understanding (it's not just a yes-or-no proposition) and you can always heighten yours. Rock-solid understanding is the foundation for success.

Make Mistakes

Fail to succeed. Intentionally get it wrong to inevitably get it even more right. Mistakes are great teachers - they highlight unforeseen opportunities and holes in your understanding. They also show you which way to turn next, and they ignite your imagination.

Raise Questions

Constantly create questions to clarify and extend your understanding. What's the real question? Working on the wrong questions can waste a lifetime. Ideas are in the air - the right questions will bring them out and help you see connections that otherwise would have been invisible.

 Follow the Flow of Ideas

Look back to see where ideas came from and then look ahead to discover where those ideas may lead. A new idea is a beginning, not an end. Ideas are rare - milk them. Following the consequences of small ideas can result in big payoffs.

The Quintessential Element 

The unchanging element is change - by mastering the first four elements, you can change the way you think and learn. You can always improve, grow, and extract more out of your education, yourself, and the way you live your life. Change is the universal constant that allows you to get the most out of living and learning.


As always, the sweetest reward of practicing such effective mathematical thinking is to discover your ability to create and nurture a beautiful mind 

~ Quintessentially curious student for life